merged fix from RC_0_16

ChangeLog

@@ -25,6 +25,7 @@
 	* fix uTP edge case where udp socket buffer fills up
 	* fix nagle implementation in uTP
 
+	* graceful pause fix
 	* i2p fixes
 	* fix issue when loading certain malformed .torrent files
 	* pass along host header with http proxy requests and possible http_connection shutdown hang

src/torrent.cpp

@@ -7782,7 +7782,7 @@ namespace libtorrent
 			set_upload_mode(false);
 		}
 
-		if (is_paused())
+		if (is_paused() && !m_graceful_pause_mode)
 		{
 			// let the stats fade out to 0
 			accumulator += m_stat;